i've come to realise that there's a clear distinction between just a 'good' friend and a 'very good/best' friend. the former would agree/disagree with what you're doing in your life, and would not preach, but simply feel that "it's your life, so it's ultimately your choice. i'm in no position to comment". while on the other hand, the latter would sit down and have a proper conversation with you. he/she would probe, preach and try to include their insight/opinions without sounding overbearing. then, we would both try to find the root cause of the problem and suggest a solution for it. he/she would be really sincere to help and make you feel that he/she is concerned and would go all out to be sharing this emotional baggage with you.

i'm really blessed to have such an awesome best friend really <3